Dear Paul,
My husband Gary and I are both Christian’s and while I was trying to research the question I am about to petition you concerning, I came across your site and realized you are a man of GOD and that this must not be a chance encounter.
My husband had worked for his former employer for over twenty years when another company took interest in him several states away. Long story short, my husband accepted this position and with him took his 401k account.
With the 401k we purchased our new home for our family. The company had taken a hefty amount out which we had expected, as we had heard this would happen.
Well, when it came time for tax season we learned that they had only taken half for some reason, and that we still owed the other half. So we ended up taking out a home equity line of credit against our home to pay for this.
Over the last three years we have also ran up other debt and had to use our credit cards to help with property taxes.
It has been a cycle of trying to get out of the toilet with the credit cards, and never having enough to get out from under, yet my husband works for a major company and is a Senior Industrial Engineer.
We are faithful to tithe our first ten percent and seed beyond that even. Sure, some of your readers might say that this is where we are messing up, but we know that is not true. We have seen GOD show up when we are faithful and trust HIM like this, not when we trust the dollar.
There is another answer to how to figure another way through this and I am praying you can help us with some solution. My poor husband has called banks and credit card companies.
If we take out the loans some are offering, we would be paying more than we are now for several years to come. We just want to find a way to consolidate our debt into one payment.
The debt we have is the current loan mentioned which is at 50,000 currently, and the debt to add which is 35,000. The tax office estimates our home valued at 191,000. Also we live in a city that has not be affected much by the fall of the housing market. Ours is holding steady. in fact, our city is listed by Forbes to be one of the leading in the top economic cities to live in.
Is there any way we might obtain a home owners loan that does not come due in five years, but maybe gives us a longer homeowners option? It seems banks would be looking for borrowers like us who are not looking to borrow a substantial amount of money towards their home.
Can we get a homeowners loan towards a home we already own? We are prepared to consolidate all the debt and pay one payment a month. We really would like to begin saving again and banking the money we are throwing away every month.
We never seen this coming. Never before did we have this problem and enough is enough. Please help us with any suggestions you might have.
GOD bless you!
Sherry (more…)